I like to date. I’m not really interested in finding “true love” anymore. Maybe this is just a normal reaction to having a stifling relationship for so many years (ie: my marriage). But maybe it’s just me growing up – throwing away the childish romantic ideas that filled my head and my consciousness for much of my life. I truly tried to follow it and look where I ended up!! So, for ME I’m not interested in a long term relationship – I much prefer meeting new people, guys, and having just the fun of the first dates. Tune in to this blog to see how long this lasts LOL!!
Anyway, the one thing that I have noticed is the number of guys who hang out in bars, but do NOTHING!! They just get a drink, then migrate to the edges of the bar and stand there. They nurse their drink, they look very uncomfortable, and then they leave.
Now, it’s clear that they’ve made an effort to clean themselves up, dress nicely etc. so you would think that they would be more assertive. But they aren’t. So I’ve occasionally taken pity on them and dragged them into a conversation. Sometimes it’s been great, but other times you would swear from their wide fearful eyes and sweaty brows that I had forced them on stage, naked, to give a speech to the UN!!
What I’ve learned is that invariably these are the recently “alone” guys – either from separation or divorce. They haven’t dated in about 20 years (and maybe they weren’t that good at it to begin with) and they are scared!
So, as I always do, I decided to try and help. One night I got online and started to research sites, books, courses etc. that I could recommend to these poor saps. I found TONS of resources, so I carefully researched them and I came up with one that I recommend.
“Everything You Need To Know About Meeting, Dating, & Seducing Women…”
A guy named Joseph Matthews wrote this guide and the follow up emails. Now, don’t be put off by the title and the pics he uses. Because if you do you will miss all the great content. I can tell you now, that from a woman’s point of view, THIS WILL WORK! The approaches are real and inspire confidence, and in case you didn’t know it, confidence it the #1 turn on for women.
I actually have written this URL onto the cards I hand out to guys I meet in the hope that they will actually follow up on it and learn something. Because I am really sick and tired of seeing these sad looking men when I go out. I would much rather go to a bar full of confident, friendly guys who will actually open their mouths and talk than to be just ogled all night while I sit alone and bored.
Please, all single men, HELP me here! Get this guide and find out how to approach women the right way. There are millions of amazing women out there just wanting a wonderful man to approach them. Take the advice from this book and apply it. You will so very happy that you did!


October 21st, 2009 at 7:21 am
I’m really happy that you found a good, useful guide for men! Most of the so-called “guides” I’ve seen for men treat women as if we’re all the same, instead of with different personalities and likes and dislikes. Good for you for spreading the word!